Posted by fschmidt on
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I think you are confusing confidence and arrogance.  One can obviously be confident without being arrogant as in "quiet confidence".  One can also arrogant without being confident as in the fake showoff who knows he's full of it.  Women in feminist countries are attracted to assholes, and being arrogant is one of the best indications of being an asshole which is what these women love.  Guys who are very good at what they do and are quietly confident as a result have no appeal to modern women.  But guys who are full of shit, good at nothing and know it, but talk up a storm appeal to modern women.