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chibbity wrote

Both the young men and the young women in my class (there were twelve, so it's quite a low sample size) have no interests in settling down at this point, but engage in serial monogamy with potential long-term life partners selected on the basis of mutually shared interest and attraction. The one exception is actually the most intelligent guy in the class who's spending some time right now sleeping around with women who are interested in the same thing.

The girls, at least, aren't selecting for "bad boys" but for competent peers.

 

Your country seems more homogenous so perhaps race is a factor.

From looking here it seems that 78.89% of people in the Netherlands are “Ethnic Dutch”. I don’t know what city you live in so this is the closest number I have. Based on this number I’m going to assume the people in your program are “Ethnic Dutch” or “white”, am I right or wrong?

My town is similar in that it also has a prestigious university. I live in Berkeley California a few blocks away from UC Berkeley.  By comparison Berkeley is only 59.51% “white”. The university itself is only 29% “White”.

A few years ago I was working at a car wash and one of the men there was dating a student at UC Berkeley. He himself was not a college graduate. In his own words he considered himself a “bad boy”. He had tattoos, he would listen to rap music and drove a muscle car. He regularly flirted with female customers. I would describe him as a sleazy “omega”. He was “white” but culturally speaking he spoke and acted closer to “black” people. In America sleazy white men imitate blacks who live in ghettos. My guess is that since the Netherlands doesn’t have as many black ghettos perhaps “Ethnic Dutch” don’t have anyone bad to copy.

chibbity wrote

I'm missing some math here, I think. If this hypothetical woman is sleeping around casually with the neighborhood men (NM) who will later be marriage material, why does the NB have "virtually no sex in his prime years" if she was being a slut?  Assuming that all the girls we're talking about are neighborhood girls (NG) and they are having lots of sex, primarily with NM, but let's say occasionally with omega men (OM), then most of the sex in the neighborhood will be between NG and NM, leading to a roughly equal number of sexual experiences between NGs and NMs, all of which happens in the prime of their lives.

There’s a strong assumption in the “manosphere” that 20% of men are screwing 80% of women.