Posted by chibbity on
URL: https://coalpha.arkian.net/A-question-about-omega-males-prospering-tp7575661.html

First, I want to state that I'm no troll.  Since yesterday, I've been reading up on the topics of incel and CoAlpha, so if I say something incorrect, consider that it is out of ignorance and not out of malice.

As a married woman with two children, I found myself very confused by the description presented of omega males as being generally more successful with women despite being sneaky and conniving. I live in a world of adults who, for the most part, pair off either with or without marriage, and have children. The men and women select their mates based primarily on friendship and mutually shared interests and often have or adopt children. The men in these relationships are also builders in society, such that they contribute and cooperate with others and are neither simple cogs in the machine, nor are they necessarily 'alphas' walking on the backs of others to produce their own success.

I admit that I live in a relatively affluent area, where people tend to be highly educated.  Consequent to this is that feminism and equality of women is mostly a given. But I will say that I absolutely have not seen the sort of puerile behavior of sneakily using seduction to 'steal' the good women away without contributing to society -- at least not without the parties involved being literally children or teenagers.

So my question is perhaps best understood as: Where does the adult society I have identified above figure into the structure that's been described on this website?

I have more questions, but I suppose it's better to pose this one to start.