Posted by fschmidt on
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I don't see how this quote is relevant.  Your case isn't a case of you being with your husband and witholding sex.

I also don't think you are being irrational because the issue here is emotion which isn't based on rationality.  But I would encourage you to rethink the idea of your value being diminished.  Sometimes thinking things through can cause a change in emotion.